Its on its way to being ova

Well he's been served. How do I know you may ask. He called me last night from his parent's house (the only reason I answered the phone) ranting about one lil sentence. My first thoughts were that he already knows we've amended that statment verbally. He knows I'm not one to renege on a promise (unlike him). And he knows I know there's no way in blue hell I'd ever see that money despite what any judge says. That negro aint got ish I want. Only think I want from him is OUT. I informed him that I was not seeking anything from him and that the attachment he's referring to is just to put into record our agreement. Our verbal agreement (which is also legally binding) cancels the last sentence. And that I would ensure its known in court that I am not pursuing that money nor any other alimony type compensation. After that I said bye and hung up. All that needed to be said had been said. I've done enough pussyfooting and being cordial with him. I guess now that he's served I'm taking off all kid gloves.

After talking with a couple ppl, I do understand his concern. But just because he is incapable of keeping his word, doesn't mean I am. I don't wanna go through the trouble of putting our verbal agreement in writing. But I also don't want that one sentence to hinder this process. My lawyer stated that we can simply address it in court stating that portion is no longer applicable. But he also said if he contests (even just that one sentence), it'll take longer for a court date to be made. To make the process go its quickest he needs to sign the documents uncontested. He has 30 days to respond. If he doesn't, my lawyer will issue a default. Then the courts will issue a court date, inform him of the date, and inquire as to why he didn't respond.

So in any event, I should have a court date my May 17, 2007. *crossing fingers, toes, and eyes* I'm just really hoping we're divorced before our next anniversary (June 8th).

Singing: I just want it to be ova!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I knew this process was gonna take some time, but this is getting ridiculous. I finally stopped beating around the bush and secured a lawyer on Jan 8th. Here we are now, April 12th, and I'm still waiting. The papers have been filed, the lawyer got them back form the courts, and gave them to the server. But Dat Nicca still hasn't been served with the divorce papers. I know I shoulda handled this a long time ago, but I was really hoping it would be over before our next anniversary (June 8th). This is all out of my hands. All I can do is wait. Waiting is so exhausting sometimes. Nerve wraking. I've done a good job of not worring my lawyer to death. I only ask for an update (via email) every 1-2 weeks. Hey he got 1G he lucky I'm not calling him erry day.

So the last status I got was that the hold up on serving the papers was that the server was going to his parents house.

Backdrop: Around my Bday, Dat Nicca moved back home with his parents. So when I got back from Mexico, I called the lawyer with that new address. 2 days later I was told he went back to the OLD BROADS house. So I emailed the lawyer to tell him to use the orignal addy. He said the papers were filed with the parents addy already, but they could be delivered to a different address.

Apparently, the server paid no attention to the letter stipulating where to deliver the papers. So he wasted a week knocking on his parents door. Now its been over a week since he was told the correct addy....and still nothing. I know nothing. Emailed the lawyer yesterday to determine the status....and nothing still I know nothing......I also asked some questions regarding what do we do, if he never is served. I need to know that him not being served does not means I can't get my divorce.

I can only imagine he is sitting there not answering the door. Dodging the law. I'm not sure if he has a job. He would want to since he has to pay over $30K in restitution. (Thats another story for another day. Besides I only know what the court records say, I don't know the story behind it. Gotta love the internet)

I have never stepped foot on that lady's property. But if he holds this process up, I may have to. If he knows whats good for him, he will just sign on the dotted line. I JUST WANT THIS TO BE OVA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Maybe I'm just being sensitive

but it seems to me, it hurts you to part your lips to me. You carrying on like I did something to you. I ask you a question, you look at me like I'm crazy, but someone asks you the same question and get an immediate response. Da hell. Ok like I said, maybe I'm being sensitive. We all know I am.

not even sure what this is about. The last time we had a real conversation, was when I called you about an error on something you sent out to the masses, so you could correct it before you printed. you said thanks and informed me you already knew about it and that if I had READ I would've known you knew. I informed you of your tude, you stated you did not have. The change in your tone and volume told me different. If you were seriously not ticked, you would've calmly stated thanks, but i already knew its in the email. As apposed to the acussatory language that was fired at me. But hey thats me, not you. You choose your words as you see fit. And I in turn will interupt them as I hear them.

I would hope something that minor is not what this is all about. Maybe you're just in one of your moods. And this has nothing to do with me. Like I said maybe, just maybe, I'm being sensitive. I would think if you had a problem with me, you would state said problem so the issue coud be resolved.

And I guess, if this is about that. This here post will make you upset with me longer. Oh well. Cause I will not be tip toeing around your ass for fear of your rath. I did nothing wrong.