Tuesday, November 07, 2006

IF A MAN WANTS YOU

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships............there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.


BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............


SO BLOG FAMILIA WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS

14 Comments:

Blogger The Brown Blogger said...

I totally agree. This is what we're thinking in that all too familiar getting to know you phase. This needs to be made into a bookmark or lil plastic refrence card and given away for free...

Hmmm.

4:56 PM  
Blogger G. Mo said...

A lot of very sound points in this. The one thing that sticks out to me the most is "The only person you can control in a relationship is you". A lot of folks spend time trying to change the person that they're with, not realizing that they are who they were when you met them. You can't make anyone do anything that they don't want to do themselves... and why would you want to be with a person you had to control anyway?

4:59 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I've seen this before and totally agree with it. No need to elaborate because the author hit all the points. Thanks for posting. Hopefully someone will read this and have an epiphany.

9:50 PM  
Blogger Lāā said...

I really like this one. Every now and then I'll get it in an email...probably to remind me

9:30 AM  
Blogger The Stiltwalker said...

this is a good guide to 'moving on without regret'

1:22 PM  
Blogger TTD said...

lol.. i guess you really did post it! i got it in email today...

i agree 100%

2:48 PM  
Blogger Ms.Honey said...

I concur and I keep telling myself that when I deal with knuckle heads LOL

9:57 AM  
Blogger SomeOne said...

GRRRRRRR...i just responded to you all individually...and it went away...

i aint typing all that again...

so thanks to all for the input , glad yall could relate to the post.

11:38 AM  
Blogger NegroPino™ said...

Thanks

1:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Michael Baisden is NOT smart!

3:18 PM  
Blogger SomeOne said...

Baisden wrote this??????

3:33 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

No but... its partially on point and partially WRONG!!

3:43 PM  
Blogger SomeOne said...

what what is wrong???? and da hell that have to do with Baisden, lol

4:24 PM  
Blogger ILL said...

Now I Can Stop Paying For Sex!!!

THANKS!!!

11:16 AM  

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