B4 I 4get again

I talked to Laa shortly after turkeyday. She's doing good. She wanted to let everyone know she's fine and misses blogging and her blog fam. But unfortunately, they have cracked down on internet usage at her job. Since blogging doesn't pay the bills, she had to step back for a while. As always she's focused on her kids and building a better life.

Am I wrong....I really don't want to work my 2nd gig today. I'm supposed to be off....but I get a call at 9:25 am for my manager/good friend saying the assist manager's father in law passed, so she can't work tonite. Mind you i still hadn't made it to my first job, I came in later knowing I didn't have to work tonite. But I couldn't get up this morn because 1. I didn't doze off till after 1 am and 2.. I woke up in the middle of the night hacking my lungs out. So when the alarm went off @ 6am, i got up and tinkled then got right back in bed until 7:45 am.

Originally I agreed to work, but said I could not be there at my normal 6pm, since I would not get off from the 1st gig until 6pm.....I know this was an emergency situation, but the more I thought about it, the more and more I didn't want to go in. First of all I've already work M-W and have to work F. So if I work tonite, that will be 5 days straight of working both jobs. Yeah its only 3 hours more, but still. Now me working would mean my manager would not have to work open to close.....Why is her working all day much more drastic than me working all day????? Just because I'm doing it on 2 diff jobs does not make it less hours. Secondly, she been knowing for several months now, that she needs to hire another person that can close the store. But she keeps dragging her heels. She does not want to train any of the 3 other ppl there, but has not made any moves to hire and train someone else. Its only 3 ppl (her, asst, and I) who are allowed to open and close the store. So at least 2 of us have to work everyday. We need that 4th person, so noone ever has to work doubles, for flexiblity sake. Its been just us 3 since the summer.....So I called back and said I can't do it. I need to rest too. She said it was ok. But I know she wants me there. I feel a lil guilty, because she always does her best to work with my schedule and make sure I have days off that I need. Even if it means she has to do a double.

Why the hell are you calling me

If you can't call me and show your number, don't bother to dial my number. And why da hell do I have to be so damn nosy.....If it weren't for my nosiness I would not have answered the phone when Dat Nicca called me from a Private Number AGAIN......I was on the phone with my girl....I knew it was u....but I had to answer to know for sure....they say curiosity kills the cat..... I will learn one day, that I do not have to know everything.......NEWS FLASH NICCA: I have the house number I have never called THERE.....why would I start now....You don't have to block your punk ass number....I do not care about you or that millie mouf 40+ year old and her grown ass kids that you live with....I have the home address, I have the bitches work number and address.....Here we are almost 2 years later.....DO U REALLY THINK I GIVE 2 SHITS ABOUT YOUR MONKEY ASS......UHHHHHHH NO BITCH!!!!!! I have absolutely no words for you. But since I'm nosey I will answer the phone to see what foolishness you talking today....To see what lie you plan to tell....JUST SO I CAN TALK ABOUT YOUR DUSTY ASS LATER......All I ask is that you not disrespect my phone by calling me PRIVATE.....

His reason for calling.....welll all that he would say since i was so short with him.....Ummm are you still getting mail for me....Me no, I only have old mail....Him: OK i was just making sure....ME. Alright, Bye, Click.....I didn't give him a chance to ask for MONEY, I know that what he was really calling for....Yes this Nicca still has the balls to ask ME for MONEY....NICCA PLEASE.....I heard later on that he called some of his cousins yesterday too.....I guess he tryna make his rounds with the collection plate......

Now that I got that off my chest....

My thanksgiving was good. Me and ma cooked...I did mac and cheese, greens, and sweet potatoes....she did turkey, ham, banana pudding, stuffing, corn bread, cake, and pie......I did help her with some of those, lol.......

Metro man came through and made him a plate for now and a plate for later I must like him, i even let him take a healthy portion of banana pudding with him....Negro better bring my tupperware back......

Room mate guy put the numbers up on my house.....I officially have an address. ....... :)

Thanks to all who texted or called me on Turkey day.....Yall made me feel popular.... :)

Holla.....


PS....if you have nothing nice to say, don't bother saying it at all.....my name is not heffa, slut, hoe....I'm sure thats not how you address your mother when you start a convo, so don't bring that shit over here.....It ain't funny or cute.....BESIDES ONLY FEMALES TALK LIKE THAT TO ONE ANOTHER.....HEFFA SHOULD NEVA COME OUT OF A MAN's MOUF.....


PPS....you so busy looking for something to be wrong you can't see.....Don't be rejecting my timesheet talkin' bout you don't have my leave slip when, it was right in yo face....

I-POD of your Life

Thanks Sangin

I-POD of Your Life-

Here are the rules:
1. Open your library (iTunes, Winamp, Media Player, iPod, etc)
2. Put it on shuffle
3. Press play
4. For every question, type the song that's playing.
5. When you go to a new question, press the next button
6. Don't lie and try to pretend you're cool...

Opening Credits: "My Gaurantee" - Charlie Wilson
'Waking Up: Track 15 (LOL yes i have songs that are unnamed-i'm listening to determine what song it is)"Baby I'm For Real"- Not sure the artist...but its the original i think
First Day At School: "Down Low (Nobody Has to Know) - R. Kelly featuring Ron and Ernie Isley
Falling In Love: "Interlude" 112 (Da hell that mean, LMAO)
Fight Song: "Brown Sugar (Fine)"- Mos Def
Breaking Up: "Celebration" -Kanye West (The only one that fits....Its a celebration Bitches)
Prom: "Interlude to Biggie Nigga" - Lyfe Jennings (umm what's with all the interludes, lol)
Life is good: " Take Me " - Teedra Moses feat. Raphael Saadiq
Mental Breakdown: "Hi Hop Hooray"- Naughty By Nature
Driving: "The Honorable"- Little Brother the Chittlin Circuit 1.5 Feat Chaund (ok i thought it shoulda been Move B get out the way, until I heard the line....Pusing my Nissan but still paying a note on it....u know ya girl drives a 06 Altima)
Flashback: "Just Because"- Conya Doss
Getting Back Together: "Nasty Immigrants" - Raekwon (HUH????)
Ok at this point my ipod cut off in the middle of the above song...but i finished anyway
Wedding: "Still Here"- Lyfe Jennings
Birth of a child: "17 Auld Lang syne" The greatest Force M.D.s (I guess its a new year's baby, lol)
Final Battle: "Letting Go"- Brooke Hogan(I guess i'm a quitter) and no i did not pay money for this CD, lol
Funeral Song: "If you play your cards right" - Syleena Johnson
End Credits: "Cali Dro" Birdman & Lil Wayne

Because I did not cheat-some of the songs certainly didn't go with the categories... but Oh well!! hahahaha!

Guess who's Bizzack

Ok I finally get my two stars on BK's blog and I had to stop writting again. LOL. Well my busy season at work is finally over....So I will do my best to write more. :) I gotta keep my stars. :)


OK....This weekend....

Mama came down on Thursday so we can get the PT cruiser inspected. Back story: I bought moms a PT about 2-3 years ago. I pay the note and the insurance. So although it stays in VA Bch its registered here....Yes I'm a good daughter....Its funny that I bought her a car, but she wouldn't buy me one when i was growing up....but water under the bridge....

Ma was supposed to be here Weds...but she was tired after work, so she was SUPPOSED to leave Thursday morn...she didn't leave till 12:30-1...I worked from home Thurs anticipating her arrival by Noon, she got there at 5. O well, it was a good thing I stayed home...It rained so much all roads in/out of my neighborhood were flooded. Aint that some ish....Moms gets all the way down here and got turned around just down the street from my house due to flooding....So fortunately there was another way in....There was a flood there too, but since she was sitting up high...she made it through the water anyway.....I was supposed to be at work at 6, I got there at 7:30.....used the floods as my excuse. Shit I wasn't getting stuck in that water for nothing.....Me and Ma stayed up till the wee hours watching TV and shooting the shit...

Friday...got the car inspected, we waited for 15 mins....the test took 5....probably cause mom was flirting with the attendant....I was thinking to myself, MA YOU GOT EVERYTHING FIXED, WHY YOU MACKING, LOL. ME and Mom shelled out $900+ dollars to get the air bag sensors fixed, SO IT BETTA HAVE PASSED......Hit up Payless, bought my shoes, went to Lowes for groute and numbers for my house....Yes i will be putting them up, so yall can find me easier, lol.....Went to Eden's Lounge to celebrate GTL's Bday.....Ma was supposed to go, but she was tired....SO it was me and Bree.....I left my house at 10 pm....got bree we head into Bmore...and commense to driving in circles for 45 mins....I was so frustrated, I was one more wrong turn from taking my ass home....We finally get there and find parking at about 12....

So We enter the door....and I pay Me and Bree's way in....then the heffa at the door says, we have to check our coats....I was cool with that....Then she says $3/each. I looked at that Bitch like she had 2 heads....I was like maybe I missed understood....I HAVE to give you my coat...she nods yes...and I HAVE to pay....again she nods yes, then says its supposed to be $5. I'm like oh HELL NAW...how da hell do you make me give up my coat and make me pay....W/E trick....Seeing that I wan't haven it...She says its ok...And lets us roll....DAMN SKIPPY.... And what I see as soon as we step in the crowd....NEGROS WITH THEY COAT ON.....I woulda been mad if I gave her my money...AND IT WAS NOT THE MONEY IT WAS THE PRINCIPLE...

So now I'm looking for someone who looks familiar....Scanning the crowd, I see someone with a tan jacket and salmon color shirt on....but he was turned with his back towards me, so I was leery of tapping him...To see if it was GTL...I'm looking slightly to the right tryna get a glimpse of this man's face....and guess who I see.......That B -I Pissy MISSSY, Now I don's say Hi...I say DA HELL YOU DOING HERE.......That heffa kept me out the loop....I was shocked, pissed, and happy all at the same time.....The the man in the Tan jacket turns around...Sho NUff if was GTL....He gives me a hug, immediately grabs Bree (mind you he's never met Bree LOL )and Missy...Demanding I take this pic..



After that pic of course me and Bree needed a drink after that trying drive.........Missy buys Honey and GTL a drink...I'm not sure what they put in GTL's drink...cause It immediately made him wants to come out his clothes... BRINGING SEXY BACK THEM OTHER BOYS DON"T KNOW HOW TO ACT......

And of course the nite aint complete without the infamous...PISSY CHRISSY AT IT AGAIN PIC



look over missy's shoulder...and you'll find mikey in the background..:)

It wasn't enough..GTD's party had taken over the lounge.....We also had to over take the DJ area....TTD stricken a pose while honey grinds this guy out in the background




Here's me and Honey....I'm just one button shy of a waredrope malfunction...



Mikey and Me



Honey and Pissy




GGGGGGGGG GMO...He would not look at the cam...



GTL says NO MO PICS



Honey doing Vanna



I didn't get a pic of kween, but she wsa doing the damn thing in them brown sparkily boots.

OK now this pic is dark, i was tryna take this pic on the sly....this dude kept rubbin Bree's hair...I thought i was gonna have to get ugly with him




OK..that was my Friday....here's the link to the shutterfly slideshow if you can't see photobucket pics or want to see more....click here

Sat....me and ma, finally got out the house about 3 pm...went to BJ's, dollar store, just kinda loafed around...We get home eat....then start the grout project. Ma is a Jane of all trades, She regrouted my kitchen counter tops..Who ever did it, didn't fill all the cracks properly.....She didn't tell me till after the fact, that it was her first time, lol. So in the midst of doing that Bree calls: "you tryna go out??? we going to ozio's." Hmm I'll think about it. I didnt wanna leave ma, doing the grout work, but Bree did ride all the way out to Bmore with me.....So I comtemplate....then I get a text.....Please come.....umm ok....So she get to my house about 11:30 ish...we take someone home to change...then off to the club...VIP section....We partying and I see this bamma with riding boots on OVER his Jeans...I kept looking...IS THAT A DUDE...It totally blew me...1st drink on D, 2nd drink B4 I was done with the first on D, 3rd drink...hmm either D or Bree, 4th drink on Bree....this is where it gets a lil schetchy....I estimate having between 5-8 drinks...mind you I did not pay for 1, that's how i lost count. I gave a dude a lap dance, just to fawk with the girl who was near him most of the night...That nicca was shook, lol.

So by the end of the nite i was threw, glad i was riding, lol...Threw up in the bathroom, alley, and the plastic back in Bree's car....got in the house....coat, keys, and bottle water at the top of the stairs coming from the basement, boot left near the half bath door on the 2nd level, phone left in the halfbath.....jeans on bedroom floor, me in bed with bra, shirt, and glasses...knocked out...

Sunday woke up at 9 ish....had a pee run, back to bed, forced myself up at 1ish...headache naucious...another bathroom run...in half bath where i found my phone, missed calls, text messages....TTD: Send me them pics. lol....(hell i still owed her pics from the prior week) took one of my moms pills, knocked head ache out in 10 mins (no bullshit)...said to ma, if I would just get sick already i would be alright.....15 mins later....URLING....Then I felt great...But a lil light headed...only had a few crackers to eat....finally in the shower at 3pm hit target for a return....saw ma off about 5:45...not bad only 45 mins behind plan...(mind you still no food)....proceed to get TTD her pics....added music to my itunes....finally ate about 7 ish (BRICKS)....Metro man (new guy) came through...watched tv, smooched, fell asleep....he woke up at 4 am...rolled out...me awake at 530 am...wide awake...but didnt wanna get up....back to sleep...alarm at 6:30 am, turned off rolled over, up at 7:25, showered, dressed, walked snowball...and at work at 9ish.....so there you go my weekend in a nut shell.......Now let me get some work done

IF A MAN WANTS YOU

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships............there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.


BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............

SO BLOG FAMILIA WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS

colorgenics

Thanks for giving me something quick to post about Laa....


You are longing for some love and affection at this time - not that you have been deprived of tender loving care - but there are times when everyone needs to try something new or to go 'somewhere' else to perhaps experience that little extra 'understanding'.

You are a leader in every sense of the word. You know where you are going and you know what you need to do in order to get there. You exercise an inherent initiative in overcoming obstacles and difficulties. You either hold, or wish to achieve, a position of authority by means of which full control can be exerted over events.

You are a perfectionist in everything that you put your hand to. You are demanding and very exacting in the standards you apply to your choice of colleagues and friends -perhaps you demand too much from people. That perfection you seek in a particular person is illusive - perhaps it does not even exist.

You are being unduly influenced by the situation that is all around you. You do not like the feeling of loneliness and whatever it is that seems to separate you from others. You know that life can be wonderful and you are anxious to experience life in all its aspects, to live it to the full. You therefore resent any restriction or limitations that are being imposed on you and you insist on going it alone.

You don't like conflict and you endeavour to avoid criticism. You want to do your own thing and to be able to decide what is right for you. You have considerable personable charm - and this is used with considerable effect on those that keep your company.

Now I don't know about the leader part....but those who know me tell me what you think and tell me what your colors say about you in the comments Here's the link....